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I get it.
Not everyone has access to a secondhand shop where they can find the greatest vintage and secondhand clothes that fit their personal style and size perfectly.
And even when they do, it might not be as organised. You would have to trawl through racks of clothing to find your special gem.
When you think about how many things have to go right for that to happen, it can almost make you want to give up and walk into the nearest fast fashion store. (Please don’t 😉)
After buying secondhand regularly for over 10 years and selling over 4000 pieces of secondhand clothing online, I understand the frustration from both a buyer’s and a seller’s perspective.
I am here to tell you that finding secondhand clothes in your style and size is not elusive! It can be done.
It just requires a little bit of a mindset shift, but the more you buy this way, the easier it becomes, I promise.
And the best thing?
You won’t have to go through the hassle often once you’ve built your most sustainable wardrobe, with only quality garments that you love.
Read in 5 minutes
- Let’s start with a mindset shift.
- Online or in person?
- 5 steps to find the right style and size.
“It feels overwhelming to start, especially without knowing the best places to shop.”
“I’m too busy running my business to spend time searching through secondhand shops.”
“I never find my size; it seems easier to buy new than hunt for secondhand gems.”
“I’ve had bad experiences with online purchases not fitting or looking different than advertised.”
Does this sound familiar?
Quick and simple has become our norm, so anything less makes us reluctant.
Some of us millennials also remember our experience with secondhand from when we were younger—old ‘untrendy’ clothes that carried a distinct scent of mustiness, reminding you of forgotten items relegated to the back of a wardrobe.
But things are changing, especially as the market is responding to our need for easy and fast with online shopping.
There are now numerous secondhand platforms that cater to a wide range of tastes, demographics, and price points.
So whether you’re a bargain hunter, a lover of vintage, or in search of luxury items, there’s something to meet your needs.
Let’s Start With A Mindset Shift.
First, PATIENCE!
You’re not going to find something that fits perfectly every time, and that’s okay. Think of it as a treasure hunt, where the joy comes from searching and eventually finding something truly special that you’ll cherish for a looooong time.
Second, have a strong reason for buying secondhand.
Sustainability doesn’t have to be your initial motive. For me, the excitement of the hunt and finding bargains were what drew me to second-hand shopping. Over time, it evolved into a lifestyle choice driven by sustainability.
Online Or In Person?
Many people create their secondhand wardrobes from a combination of physical or online second hand shops, and swapping or stealing borrowing clothes from family and friends.
Buying in person?
The great thing about buying in person is you can always try it on to see if it fits.
The bad thing, it can be time consuming to find the best style and fit.
Start by researching and visiting all of the second-hand shops in your area.
If the sheer number of clothes overwhelms you, begin with smaller shops that offer a curated selection. As you become more comfortable, gradually move on to larger stores.
Make it a fun outing by inviting a friend and planning a coffee date afterwards. Browse through the clothes and familiarize yourself with the shops. The more you visit your favorite ones, the better you’ll know the staff and learn when new clothes come in.
If the shops don’t have what you’re looking for, or if all of this seems like too much effort, then buying online might be your best option.
Buying online?
Research platforms that carry the style and size of clothes you like to buy.
Here is a comprehensive list to help you choose the best platform.
5 Steps To Find The Right Style And Size.
Now that we’ve laid the foundation, let’s get down to the nitty gritty.
Step 1: Know Your Measurements.
Yes, that’s what I said last week!
But trying to buy secondhand clothes online that fit without knowing your personal measurements is a disaster waiting to happen!
Last week’s framework for making clothes fit was the foundation for this week’s letter, so feel free to look back at it.
Step 2: Have A Plan.
Knowing exactly what you’re looking for and why, helps you head straight to the relevant store section or use filters to narrow down your search efficiently.
What type of garment are you looking for?
- A Blouse?
- Trousers?
- A Dress?
- A Skirt?
- A Coat?
- A Jacket?
- A T-Shirt?
- A Jumper?
What is your preferred style?
- Casual?
- Sporty?
- Formal?
- Vintage?
- Business?
- Bohemian?
- Minimalist?
What is your preferred fit?
- Oversized?
- Body-con?
- Relaxed?
- Tailored?
- Slim-fit?
- Loose?
- Fitted?
See?
There are too many options, and if you don’t have a plan you are bound to get overwhelmed and give up.
BONUS TIP
As you go through life, keep a wishlist of clothes you find yourself needing. Note each time you think, “I wish I had a {insert name of garment here},” and keep a tally. This approach helps you concentrate on buying long-term items you’ll genuinely wear.
Step 3: Research Quality Brands.
Whether shopping online or in person, it’s simpler to begin with brands known for their consistent sizing and that match your personal style. (Find out more in last week’s newsletter)
But! before buying, make sure to check the sizes given by the seller, since secondhand clothes can shrink in the wash.
You simply can’t go wrong with shift dresses, wrap dresses, loose oversized blouses, or oversized jumpers and cardigans. Clothes designed to be worn oversized or those with stretch are incredibly forgiving and offer an easier fit.
Step 4: Shop with Trusted Sellers.
Always check seller reviews and ratings when buying online.
Choose sellers with clear photographs, detailed descriptions, and a fair return policy, in case the item doesn’t meet your expectations.
Returns are often a hassle for everyone involved and increase the carbon footprint of your garment, so try to buy quality garments that you can easily resell if things don’t go as planned.
If you find a really good seller, stick to buying from them. I loved building a relationship with my repeat customers when I was selling on eBay. Remember, most sellers are people too, and they often enjoy a good chat.
Step 5: Embrace Alterations.
Secondhand clothes are usually more affordable than new.
So if you find a high quality garment in your style that doesn’t fit perfectly, you still have the budget for a good tailor that can work wonders and make it look custom-made.
If you’re into DIY, you’ll likely find sewing both creative and relaxing. Why not consider getting a sewing machine and start experimenting? There’s a wealth of excellent YouTube tutorials to guide you.
However, many of us are busy women trying to save the world, so perhaps opting for a tailor might be the more practical choice after all.
You have to do what you have to do.
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See you next week,
-Yosi
